Becoming A Good Friend




Be friendly with your friends can cause you many different results. It depends on what you would hope to get from them to return. In order to maintain relationship between you and your friends you should follow these steps which include, being a good listener, speaker, thinker, and a trustworthy friend.

First, you have to be a good listener. You should listen to your friends when they seem to have some uncomfortable stories on their minds. The purposes of doing this act are to let your friends trust you and believe that you are a reliable person. In return, your friends would feel grateful for what you have done, and might respect your words as well as you respect them. Showing them that you are worry in every detail of your friends could make your friend feel satisfy to stay with you as well. Not all people are paying attention to some detail of their friends. If you find friends which having a good listener personality, they are no reason for you to let these friends go.

When you are a good listener, you should be a good speaker. Clearly most of people would like to be with polite person. That is why you should be polite to your friends. Being polite is also meaning that you are respecting their opinions and their thoughts. Rude people might have to end up being alone, or could not get along with their friends. Rude people always split some unpleasant words to their nearby people. In return, their numbers of their friends seem to lessen as the time goes by.

Next, among speak and listen. The way you thinking to your friends is also affect to the relationship between friends. You should be optimistic. You should not think harmful to your friends and you should not be jealous of your friends as well. Being pessimistic is the must avoid personality. If you always think negative with your friends, you might end up having no friends in your life. If you are having this personality you should change as soon as possible because not only this personality affect to your nearby people but it also directly affect to yourself.

Last, being trustworthy friends. Making your friends trust you is the greatest way to continuing or maintaining relationship. Your friends will trust you by sharing their secrets with you. However, you should not betray them because it will destroy every connection which you had made with your friends. Mostly of broken relationships happen because of betraying. You should make them believe that their secret would not be reveal by other people.

Having good friends in your life someone might say that it is a blessed. After been through many tough life journeys, we need at least one friend in our lives. No one could face their destiny on their own. That is why we need to find some good friends to walk along in our path. If you follow my suggestions on how to be someone’s good friend, you would find some right people which fulfill your life too.

 written by Natapong Siriwanvattana

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